When talking to girls the most important thing is to be yourself. Therefore, if you are a little nerdy, dorky or awkward then you should never pretend to be too cool or suave. It will come across as forced and insincere.
Ultimately, confidence is what matters. If you are confident in the fact that you are a nerd then women will come to like that about you. If you act shy, nervous or intimidated by women then they will find you a bit pathetic and sad.
Very few men want to come across as pathetic. It’s not a sexy thing to be. So, though you may be feeling a bit uneasy when meeting a new woman you need to do your best to show off a cool, secure and comfortable exterior to her.
She won’t care if you love Star Wars or if your clothes aren’t the coolest and most fashionable if you seem to really like who you are. If she is going to believe that you are a catch then you have to believe it (really believe it, if possible, or at least fake it.
Here are 10 great examples of funny, silly and nerdy pick-up lines that will show off a little bit of your quirky personality without making you seem lame:
- Have you ever been to Antarctica?
Me neither! We have so much in common!
- Are you from Tennessee? Because you’re the only ten I see.
- Can you fix my cell phone?
[What’s wrong with it?]
For some reason your number isn’t in it.
- You and I are like Natural Selection. Naturally, I select you.
- Who’s your internet provider?
Because I feel a connection.
- You are like a dictionary because you give meaning to my existence.
- Can I put my hard drive in your software?
- Do you have your library card?
Because I forgot mine and I want to check you out.
- The human body is made mostly of water and I am parched.
- Will you give me your number or do I just have to lie and tell my friends that you did?
There’s nothing wrong with being yourself. If you’re a guy who loves science, reading or comic books then you shouldn’t be ashamed to admit it.
The right girl will think you are great just the way you are. Try talking to women about the things that matter to you and when it comes to pick up lines you should highlight your nerdy personality. Why hide it?
It sounds cliché but you have to love yourself before anyone else can so don’t beat yourself up or allow your self-esteem to suffer because you aren’t the “cool” guy in the room.
You can be just as sexy and attractive as long as you have confidence enough to know that you are worthy of a great girl. You’ll be fighting girls off with a stick in no time.
Try one of the above nerdy pick-up lines or tweak, edit or change it to fit your situation… or just use them as inspiration for your own original icebreaker!