Being single isn’t always easy. It isn’t really the single part that is hard but rather the dating scene. It gets more and more difficult to understand what is acceptable and what is not when it comes to flirting. The wrong move could land you in hot water. Learning the proper technique for flirting is of utmost importance to keep yourself in good standing with everyone around you, including the police.
Here are the proper techniques for flirting for men:
Men often have the tendency to be crude. They think that is the only way to flirt with women. They don’t realize that what they are doing is turning those women off. Flirting isn’t about trying to bed someone down. It is about having fun while making the other person feel good. It is about bringing good attention to yourself. When you are crude, you are drawing the wrong type of attention to yourself.
Don’t grab her and try to lay one on her, be gentle, a brush on her arm, or a light massage, you can even take her hand when leading her somewhere. When you make a physical connection, you signal that you are confident in yourself and that you are interested in the woman.
For centuries, men have been buying women drinks in order to flirt with them. They have always known that it wasn’t a wise investment because it often leads to a simple thank you as the woman ends up with someone else. Don’t let that deter you though. Go ahead a drink for that lady that you want to flirt with. She will appreciate it and you may just get invited to sit at her table. Who knows where it will lead to from there. This is still one of the best flirting techniques for men.
Leave the cheesy lines at the door if you want a chance at the girl. Cheesy lines should be left out of every flirty conversation. There may be times that it’s appropriate and can sometimes break the ice because she won’t be able to help but laugh at you. Just make sure she knows you are doing it as a joke by laughing along with her. Rather than using a cheesy line, try just talking to her. She will appreciate that a lot more.
These are the best flirting techniques for men. Remember that flirting is meant to be fun, not annoying. It can also lead to dating so be careful what you say or do. It could cost you later on. Flirting is harmless fun that should be viewed as such. Being a pest is not flirting. Being a pest is being a pest and no one likes that.
Make eye contact
You will show a woman that you are interested by looking in her eyes. Once you meet her gaze, keep your stare, this shows confidence. If she looks away and smiles, she is into you, if on the other hand she looks away with no smile, she is either shy or just not into you.
Smile at her
This is usually overlooked, but nothing tells a woman that you are happy, confident and interested in her like a smile. If your teeth are not so great, get them fixed. It lowers your chances of getting a great woman, is bad for your health and your appearance.
Use open body language
Let’s face it, men walk around with their arms crossed, legs close to each other and have expressions that could scare a woman. So, open up. Don’t cross your arms, lean back in your chair with your legs open and relaxed. Try your best to have a warm and inviting expression on your face, even though we know you are tough men.
Lean in when she is talking to you
Show that you are in control, and that you are interested in what she is saying. If you lean back, that tells a woman that you are unconfident and not interested in what she has to say.
If you use these simple tips, you will be flirting in no time. Just like everything else, flirting takes practice, so get out there and get some practice in.